Colonel of Wisdom - part 4
When no doors open for you in the outside world, open doors to your Inner world. They too lead to the fulfillment of your desires - perhaps more directly.
HOOKER
To attract love, we dangle hooks from our body, baited with sex. When something yummy bites, we reel it in.
-Problem 1) Cross purposes: the “catch” wants what we advertised: sex. When we change the rules and request companionship, they may turn off. Then we call them “emotionally unavailable,” yet intimacy was never represented as the purpose for the relationship.
-Problem 2) Low Self Esteem: treating the jewel of sexuality so cheaply shows low self-worth. Anyone who values themselves so little does not feel deserving of a fine partner and is apt to choose unwisely. And moreover, will drag down any relationship with the weight of their internal baggage.
-Problem 3) Unrealistic Expectations: a person with such low self esteem searches for a savior - a Knight in Shining Armor or a Fairy Princess who will magically repair their broken life and make it shiny and wonderful. Any chance such high expectations dooms a relationship?
-Problem 4) Off Balance: if our sexual energy is flopping around off center, we will likely have general relationship troubles, “performance” issues or sexual health problems.
If you remove the hooks, protect the sanctity of your sexuality, and only attract from the heart, you show yourself great respect. Sexual health and potency is sure to follow. And those then drawn to you will truly be in love with You.
Copyright 12/05, Mystic Pete
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